Let's just post the comments in question here, shall we? So we all know what we're talking about?
You could have just said "It's an easy way to earn her affection if you have no other means." You jumped right into getting laid, having a 'peek' and then you, yourself conceded that the waters were getting pretty muddy.
No one needs to read that garbage on our sites. Ever. Never ever ever. You're obviously not without the means to recognize territory that others would call offensive and you ignored the warnings that you received. Do not use jokes in poor taste that were subsequently posted by others as evidence that it was a good idea to write that crap, it wasn't, and I'm not going to entertain anything suggesting that it was.
If what you write on our sites can be construed by an average, reasonable person as being offensive, we remove it. It's not censorship, it's us having positively no obligation to host it on our servers.
You do raise kind of an interesting point, however.
There's all kinds of crazy stuff in games. You have things that eat babies, people babies eat, there's no limit to the bizarre. Folks have a good faith assumption that you're speaking in the context of the game, to the extent necessary to ask or answer a question.
Your comments broke that assumption, which is why you got the reaction that you did. What you typed reminded me of a woman walking past a group of young men and loud cat-calling that followed. That's how it came off to me, and I don't want that on our sites.
When someone pulls you aside and tells you "that's over the top", a good default reaction is to listen to them until you've had some time to think about it, even if you're not immediately certain where they're coming from.