Our policy, based on the selected answer to the question in the first link, seems to be that we do not care about pronoun genders, there are larger considerations to focus on:
This means that 'he/him', 'they/their', and 'she/her' pronouns are correct, and none of them are incorrect. Good answers simply maintain continuity [...]
The CoC has been updated with the following directives:
1.“Use stated pronouns (when known).”
2.“Prefer gender-neutral language when uncertain
Does the RPG.SE policy conflict with the general SE Code of Conduct?
How closely do we need to police this update, if at all (and instead rely on users to self-police)?
Does this have any impact on the fact that many system sourcebooks default to using feminine pronouns?